How to Crush Your Goals in 2017, According to Harvard Research
Only
8% of people are able to actually achieve their New Year’s goals — let’s fix that.
Every new year is an opportunity to
draw up a fresh blueprint of ourselves and our goals.
This sounds good in theory, especially
after one-too many champagne flutes at a New Year’s party. In practice, though,
our best intentions often never make it off the ground.
Studies actually show that only they set each year. This might not be
entirely our fault — it’s
no secret that rewiring our brains to consistently perform better habits is a
challenge, to say the least.
Luckily, Harvard research has
uncovered several effective ways to trick your brain into following through on
your aspirations. Here’s are a few proven ways to create realistic goals and
finally stick to them in 2017:
Replace bad behaviors
When Heidi Grant Halvorson, behavioral
psychologist and author spoke to harverd. she revealed
that a critical part of achieving goals is having a specific plan for adopting
healthier habits and countering bad behaviors.
“Your brain isn’t really very good at
accepting instructions like ‘stop wanting to eat doughnuts’ or ‘stop losing
your temper when you get emails,’” she says. “We’re not really good at dealing
with instructions that are just about ‘stop doing x.’”
Her solution is to have a concrete,
healthy behavior ready to replace the bad ones when they inevitably surface.
For example, if your goal is to eat healthier, replace a food like ice cream
with a homemade, nutritious peanut butter .” If you want to Halvorson suggests stopping those impulses in
their tracks by looking at your to-do list and working on one or two small,
manageable tasks.
Knowing exactly what to do when bad
behaviors rear their ugly head can make a world of difference when setting and
crushing your goals.
Create mini-goals
Creating milestones that gradually
lead up to your ultimate goal is one of the best ways to be successful,
according to rule. Think of a mountain climber; when they
begin climbing mountains they don’t start with Everest. Our brains are much
more likely to stick with a lifestyle change, when we use incremental progress
to steadily reinforce new behaviors.
Expert Tomas Chamorro-Premuzic, a
professor of Business Psychology at University College London, tells Harvard,
“You want to see change in a positive direction and small improvements …
The point is not to get better than others, it’s to get better than the old
version of yourself.”
Halvorson echost his advice, saying to
“focus on maybe one or two things that you’re going to really put your energy
toward. And then once you’ve got those mastered and you’ve got some new good
habits that you’ve built in their place, then you can start working on some of
your other goals.”
Piling on too much change all at once
is likely to cause people to relapse on the behaviors they want to change.
Appreciating the small, day-to-day changes you see in yourself will serve as a
powerful motivator.
Keep an eye on the prize
Another excellent method for
maintaining control over your goals is to actively think about your them on a
daily basis.
As Halvorson discovered, sometimes our
goals crash and burn because we’re running on autopilot. “Do you actually think
consciously to yourself, I am doing this because I have the goal of being
successful. I am doing this because I have the goal of being healthier,” she
tells Harvard. “We don’t actually think consciously about our goals very much.”
Just take a minute or to reflect on
your goal every day. Think about the rewards that will come with it and why it
benefits you. Even an exercise as simple as this can fill you with
determination and allow you to cross the proverbial finish line.
Be specific
All of these tips relate to one
particular action: be specific. Goals like “I want to lose weight” or “I want
to stop procrastinating” are abstract. Technically, you could drop 5 pounds or
write one sentence and achieve your goals — that’s why the experts
recommend getting as scientific as possible.
Moreover, getting specific about the when and where you’ll
actually accomplish those goals has proven.
To the successful, a dream isn’t
something achieved by deliberating how to reach it, but rather a specific,
well-conceived desire that always happens.
The
bottom line:
Just because the majority of people
fail to reach their goals in the new year, it doesn’t mean you can’t be
exceptional. By creating a precise game plan that replaces bad behaviors with
good ones and has realistic milestones, you can crush your goals in 2017.
Start taking baby-steps now, and
you’ll be amazed at how you eventually achieve the “impossible” in the upcoming
year.
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